My Mom (Eng)

by - November 11, 2020



I wanna tell you about my mom, my special girl who has love and affection without limit for me and for her children. Since I had been talking at toddler and called her Ibuk, I convince that she is my save spot, I call her the most comfortable home and the one person I can get warm hug whenever I need to.

My mother is pretty and tall. My mom has good writing skill, I am inspired with. She is clever and so submissive on religion. She is hard worker at her activities and job. She is not too attention toward dress she wears. She is lovely wife for her husband, mom for her children, teacher for her students and cared person for people among her.

My mom is as likely as the other moms, sometimes she is fussy, angrily and make me mad but she always make me compose, enthusiasm, stand by at home happily. Although she never says love to me but anything she has been doing is expressing love and so sacrifice for her children's day especially me. 

In Communication, My family seldom express a love or affection by a word. We like used to doing the best for each other, and its take me to taboo situations when I wanna say romantic word to them. This part I  am so deplored it. As their children we aren't used to saying thank, sorry, greetings or other expressions, and because of that, it often placing me to difficult situation for saying those words until I grew became teenager. Luckily I get opportunity to learn about expressions in the college. At that time I just had known that we should say those word to the other people for unconditional regard expression. But now I used to saying those words to my family. Simple words above should became a habit since early because its for regard and respect the others people.

I think all of us ever got a moments of Mom's Power. Such as when we lost own goods and we had looked for it everywhere that could be reached by our eyes and hand, but we were still got none. Then our mother took a contribution once or twice only, directly she got its as long as possible. Whereas we had past in the same place back and forth. Again, when I got stumble, after I cried for a long time and just by her magician hand caressed my wounded part, its heal immediately. Or when we was sad or got bad something, directly the emotions would connect with her heart, so she would call us suddenly. And another magics of mom's power we can find in another situations.

My mom is strong and multitasking woman. Beside her task as wife, being a mother always make her works as perfect as she can do. Although any situations stressed her, she can stand by as wife and mother. I look at my mom, she likely never tired to do her activities a long day. She gets up at the first and directly do everything she should do. Washing dishes, clothes, praying tahajud, start cooking and preparing our need for the day. She can finish housework before the sun rises up. She always show us her strength in order to her children do their day happily, clearly and safely. Without her a day in the home became untidy place.

Until one day, a hard situation came to my family. When my brother got a serious sick until he passed away, it was hard situation for my family especially my mom. I can't describe her hopeless and regret on that day. But she always show us her strength and hold back herself at sincere and patience.

Being overly emotional is my mom actually. She can cry louder than her sibling or among us and its for some situations make her stressed. She is good and skillfulness for handling her emotions and house work. 

One of my wonder and amaze things from her, she likes give her guests meals especially for her closed family. She tries looking for foods as a dish. She can preparing meal quickly and instantly. She will be happy when she could give her guests meals. My mom also my Abi often give debt to some people whereas they often postponed returning back or cant pay it more. 

She is my teacher and certainly my role model. She inspires me having ambition became a teacher. She taught me the basic of reciting Qur'an and accompanied me doing assignments patiently when I was ES and diniyah.  I think her desire on education is from her parents and her husband, my Abi. Both of them are born became people service. I am luckily became their child. 

Since I stayed on different place away from her, and she had been left by her son, her affection to me is increased day by day. She is more sentimental. Her hug and attention is more tight. Moreover since she has been able to operate gadget, she often call me and my sister whenever she wants. She wanna update her children's news and she is so enjoyable with video call even I got restless when she didn't call me.

I think a mother has ordinary place in our heart. Although he was ever fussy and supposed her as a wicked person when we was child but she always give everything she can do to her children without complains and exactly with patiently.

However she is, my Mom is the one extraordinary person in my long life. She does her task as well as she can do. We are as child can't choose own mother by our self. Everything have been being given by Allah are best for his servants. She has been giving and earning me love and affections. Therefore I must be serve devotedly to her also my dad as my precious to Allah, who has been presenting me a marvelous person in my life. And as you know one of my blessed being as their child is they take me to choose what I like to do and always give a big and high support to my decisions. 

One of her important advise to me is about praying and continuity on within. I used to taking her advise from her sacrifice for her children. Because of limited deep talking, her children used to taking model from what she does. Its take me more active thinking about meaning behind a character of mother.

My thanks, praying and what I can do for you will never be enough for everything what you have been giving to me. But I always remember you, do and pray the best I can do for you. I always pray may Allah always give you his affections, his blessed, spiritual and physical health, happiness, long lasting age in faith and loyal to Allah and his apostle. Please bless her as she cares me since baby. Amen

Barakallah fi umrikum ya Umminal karimah, we always love you forever. Thank you for unlimited love and affection to us especially me. Please forgive our disobedient that we have been doing to you.


Your lovely daughter,
At your birthday.

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